Taking It To The Next Step

I have been involved with my boyfriend for 3yrs on February 3rd. It has been a great relationship. We have had our rocky times but we have gotten through it together…and lasted. Even though I live in Michigan and he is in Chicago and were see each other once or twice a month, we are still together. Through the hurt (Not too much) and tears (Sad I couldn’t see him a lot).

Now I have come to a place where I am tired of not seeing my man every day. I want to sleep, cuddle, eat and play with him just like other couples do with each other. So I have decided its time. Its time to start applying for jobs, getting interviews and moving there so I can see him everyday! I am already in my process. He has obtained a new job as well which makes it even better.

Another big step I am leaning towards is moving in with him. He still lives in the same home he grew up in. He son stays in his old room. The home is paid for so we would go half on utilizes. I will be saving so much than if I rented my own. And you know what? I’m ready! And so is he. We know this is it and we are going to get married someday. I’m so excited I finally found the one and I feel so loved by him and I’m ready to start my life with him also. It’s just a great feeling and I just wanted to share that with you guys!

I’m extra excited for our Anniversary. I thought about doing something simple...Italian dinner and then off to a jazz/blues club. I also thought about getting something sexy for the night time when we everything is over. Maybe even something real slutty from Lover's Lane. I told my co-worker and she said I was doing too much! How is that doing too much? Dont every woman do something sexy for her man every once in awhile? Maybe cause she is 40yrs old and pretty old school and dont know nothing bout that...prob havent even done anything like that either! Who knows, but Im going to do what I want!!!

Night Bloggers!

In Jesus Name We Pray

I was very saddened to hear of the devastation an earthquake caused in Haiti. I was more saddened to read crazy Twitter comments saying that they will not help.

Some of the comments I read were because of that fact that other countries don’t help the US so why should be help them?

I really think it is cruel and that those things should really be kept to one self. Because saying them out loud makes your true image come through and it’s not a pretty picture. I know everyone has their own opinion and everyone has the freedom of speaking their opinion but what is that worth saying you are not going to help cause of this and that. It’s not going to help no one.

Be the first out of your friends to help. Be the first in your family to help. Maybe you will help someone else change their minds and ideas. Do it because you really want to help. And you will defiantly be blessed.

And if not, just don’t. Stop bitching about it and move along. Cause no one wants to hear it.

I will continue to pray for our brothers and sisters in Christ that were affected by the earthquake in Haiti and I hope you all do too.

Welcome 2010

I had a great New Year's Eve!

Didn't go to the club. No party. Didnt even get really dressed up ... at all. I went over to my gurl house and we just drank and watched TV. Watched the ball drop. It was pretty fun. No drama, no fighting, just 2 bottles of wine and a gallon of Bacardi. I noticed it takes me a lot to get drunk. So gotmpretty tipsy and thats about it ... still had fun though.

I dont believe in making New Year Resolutions. Who actually keep those anyways? Never regret things you do. Just grow and try not to make the samer mistakes again.

I am hoping this year brings forth new possibilties, new opportunites and another chance to embrace new changes!

Each day I wake up God gives me another chance to be a better person, girlfriend, sister, daughter, best friend. Another day of being the best Child of God I can be! And I thank Him for that chance!

Hope you guys had a great night and have great opportunies ahead of you as well.